Great Topics To Use When You First Approach A Girl

June 12, 2008

Great Topics To Use When You First Approach A Girl
By Rob Mead Platinum Quality Author

A lot of guys don’t change topics during their first interactions with a girl because they don’t have that many topics in their head that they think are interesting to a woman in the first place. Don’t let that shortcoming deter you from switching topics on a girl within the first 30 seconds of a lull in the conversation.

Here are some great topics that you can read up on even BEFORE making your first escalation during an approach with a hot girl: Her last romantic night, her favorite form of music, her favorite TV shows or recent movies she’s seen, her favorite restaurants/food, her ideas of what "sexy clothes" consist of.

You get the idea now. You should always make her say exactly what she feels about romantic topics or any other topic that will get her excited with the conversation you two or having. A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking the girl must like what he finds interesting, such as pro football, violent movies or politics.

These are the absolute WORST topics you could imagine when initially talking to a hot girl you just met, so avoid these topics like the plague!

Any topic that can result in an argument between you and this hot girl you are talking to must be avoided at all times, such as politics, religion, abortion rights, racism and other morbid topics such as death, disfigurements, catastrophic events such as earthquakes and even air pollution.

The reason it is a huge mistake to talk about these topics is because this girl will start to equate bad feelings you have conjured up in her mind to you. On the opposite side of that is the good feelings she will have if you stay away from those topics and instead talk about happy subjects such as movies, concerts, her romantic interests, TV shows and all the other topics that she personally loves to talk about.

WHAT TOPICS INTEREST HER MOST?

The only way to get to know what a girl likes to talk about during an interaction with a guy is by leading her into the next topic of conversation. The best way to encourage her to talk about her own favorite things in life is to say leading questions first. A good example of a leading question would be: "I really like the way you wear your clothes. Do you study fashion now or did you take a fashion class in college?"

This is a great question that women will eat right up because it says that you have noticed her great taste in clothes and that you are more interested in her college background than she would have imagined.

Even if this girl did not go to college for fashion, most women have a huge desire to learn a lot more about the fashion world than they really have. Why do you think magazines such as Elle and Vanity Fair are such huge sellers all over the world? It’s because women love to know as much about the current trends in clothes around the world as they possibly can.

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